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[BIG JOHN]

K Nix, I may have exaggerated a little, it just seems like lately you have been doing it quite a bit. You gotta remember without the adverts VDR couldn't exist. This is a big community & as you know it's impossible to keep everyone happy. Myself & the mods work very hard to make this a good place for all of you so how bout some positive feedback once in awhile, have a good one pal. BJ

[Nix]

From here.

I guess what it goes to show, is how much we take for granted on this site.

The dedication of the moderators of the various forums and the operators of the site have managed to contribute to an excellent site that we should be proud of. To all of you (you know who you are) a heartfelt pat on the back for a job well done.

[DennisR]

Guest that visit me are *not* allowed to smoke in my house. If they really, really must smoke they are welcome to leave. We all have mutual friends that don't mind if people smoke in their house, so I'm sure that the smokers would be more comfortable there. I don't mind if they visit our mutual friends more than they visit me. Matter of fact, I may join them there on occasion. I would however consider it rude and backstabbing if, while at the other mutual friend's house, they complained about not being able to smoke in my house. I would also consider it disrespectful if they complained about my rules while in my house. I wouldn't dream of doing the same to them. Is this getting through?

[Nix]

So basically you're trying to say that we should abide by the rules of the person that owns the house ??

So if at my house I insisted that everyone should be nude and that there was no such thing as sexual abuse, that should just be accepted and no one is allowed to disagree either at my house or elsewehere ??

I don't think so.

I know this is an extreme example, but we're not sheep we don't just follow the leader.

Yes certain circumstances dictate the use of rules, laws and beliefs , but sometimes we need to challenge those beliefs and there is such a thing as freedom of speech.


BTW, mods, i'm not some crazed sexual fiend in case you are wondering, it was just an example.

[Rapmaster]

Umm yes. If you want to make such a rule in your house, then anyone who disagrees will simply have to leave. Assuming no laws are being violated, you can do what you want. Consenting adults can choose to be nude in your house, or leave. People are free to disagree, but once the owner gets sick of the complaints-- the complainers are shown to the door.

You have the right to challenge the rules, but others have the right to ignore your opinion as well

*typing as fast as I can because this thread is on its way to a swift CLOSING *

[BIG JOHN]

And a good nite to all. BJ