How do I stop automatic updates from installing? I have it set to ask before they install so I can choose what I want to install. Sometimes when I shut down I get a message that says I can click here to shut down without installing updates. The next time I long on they have installed. I notice it when I keep getting a message that says windows needs to restart in order to finish installing the updates. How can I stop this?

Also I keep getting a lot of "program not responding" messages. What causes this?

Thanks.