Its only by chance (Photolady's sig) that I have just got news of this very very sad news, I am totally shocked.
I'd like to echo the sentiments of all the previous posters and would like to add that to find another fair and true gentleman of the calibre of BJ, will be a very lucky find indeed.
BJ, you gave me a 2nd chance on this forum and along with the help and knowledge I have gained I will always be grateful to you for that.
RIP
