Well I got it going, not sure exactly how... I put the 8888 and 8844 in DNS, but I had tried that before and it didn't work. I had netbios over tcpip, I changed that.... I also got the sp 2 and sp 3 installed, it seemed to change after that. Several things popped up that hadn't before, like i need to MS updates... Doesn't matter it is working just fine now...

Thanks to all that worked so long on helping me, you guys are great!!!!